The Horror of the Non-Breastfeeding Mother
I was in a group of moms who were talking about breastfeeding even though our youngest children are now in Kindergarten. I winced knowing what I would hear. “I breastfed for over a year with all three of my children!” “I just loved breastfeeding.” “Pumping was a breeze.” I waited for the conversation to pass. But it didn’t and was suddenly directed to me. “Um…me?… I didn’t even try. Wasn’t interested in the whole concept…it’s not for everyone. (chuckle)” Awkward silence ensues. Finally, I hear, “Well…to boost the baby’s immune system, didnt’ you want to give it a try ?” “No, I’m selfish.” Awkward laughter. Subject successfully dropped.
I love this story.. sounds exactly like me. I get soo tired of the looks and comments when people find out that I never nursed any of my kids nor did I have any desire to! Good for you… trust me there are plenty of us out there.. we are just not the “PC” thing to be…and Im glad about that!